The first consolation: The most important is that today's heart;
why the painful feelings of regret and lost now, why worry for the inexplicable suicide out of fear. The past is gone, no matter how regret is of no avail. Future still elusive, will be empty no matter how worried is sad. Today, heart, and now people do today, but it is real, is also feeling good. Of course, past experience to summarize, to prevent the risk of future, this is wisdom.
yesterday is gone and tomorrow has not come true today.
second consolation: only his own heartache treatment;
why the painful feelings of regret and lost now. Complain about the occasional vent, but also very necessary, however, will add endless complaining about trouble, only to others to show their incompetence, negative complaints is a fatal state of mind,louis vuitton bags, once complained about a bad habit then their life will be dark not only their good mood nothing, but others have bad luck followed.
complained that no good, optimism is the most important.
third comfort: good state of mind is its own creation;
we often can not change the opinions of others, can change just by ourselves. Bad life is not someone else's sin, but rather we become bad mood. Golden Key is not getting better for people living hands, give up our resentments and sigh, good life is within reach. We wanted a good life subjectively, but objectively speaking, there is no good life, the reason is always to wait for others to improve life,
do not expect to change other people, the masters of their own lives to do.
fourth consolation: his intention to do the right thing;
life is so short, what the people wanted to be wasted? wise philosopher once said: Some people call me the street, I was with the head not return, and did not want to know the boring person! \
particularly in youth, going all out to learn skills, do not get distracted.
fifth comfort: do is always make life difficult for himself with his;
learned his appreciation of themselves, they will have to obtain the golden key to happiness, not the idle and enjoy themselves, enjoy themselves is not a conceit to appreciate they are not self-satisfaction, appreciation own more than stand still ... some information for ourselves, for ourselves that is pleasant, his smile to his face themselves, worry that the happy life then?
often to their own festivals, learned to look for feelings of pleasure.
sixth comfort: Do not chase worldly honor;
lifelong search for the so-called other people recognized things, will never lost his joy and happiness. Vulgar comments will smoke is their personality, will make their own secular pointing loss. For money and money to make himself disowned, for the right of the right to make their own reckless, in the name of their clever name will take to usurp the real chase I deliberately among the debris will become a flutter in the breeze Zhang, secular , I had become terrifying.
was kitsch, lost true, to strengthen their confidence, with self.
seventh comfort: extreme undesirable;
often because of concerns over some of which led to his mental disorders, but because of some insensitive, resulting in their own inaction on everything. The former often painful search for rational, intelligent too far due to the decline of stupidity is the source of regret anything. The latter do not know why regret things, all day long sleepwalk life, living and dead makes no difference.
extremes always tragically failed to find the wisdom of life.
eighth comfort: Do not make a fuss of being judged;
not a painting is not the evaluation by others,adidas shoes, no one is being talked about in the. If his silence, some people will blame \
just look at someone else's face, he still live not live with themselves, not confined to self.
ninth comfort: the more painful the deeper evil;
Why can not calmly life? key is to not drive away the hearts of demons in time. Because the feel evil thought, would not be sensible to restrain myself, and often make stupid remorse. Because there is no time cleaning the soul the dust, will fall into the pit from time to time will be weak. As always possessed, would make stupid blind eyes into the wrong fork in the road do not know.
bad heart, they distracted to evil.
tenth comfort: Be careful not to live too tired;
People often lament, live Zhen Lei. Regressive, is the mental pressure; tired, is the psychological Obstacle. Tired and not tired is always relative, in order not tired, we must learn to relax, you live in a Zhang Chi. Tired heart, people had long suffered health; heart tired, make their own lethargy.
other tired heart, learn to free himself.
eleventh comfort: everyone has their own living law;
the pain of his own clear, its sad they understand, their own feelings of happiness, and perhaps their own eyes hell is other people in the eyes of heaven, may the eyes of heaven itself, but is another man's hell, life is so funny, do not always suspect Spring in others, the key is to adjust their mentality to live their lives over the most important, do not climb better than.
twelfth comfort: not to desire the slaves;
people always sigh \However, if you think carefully, we live around the tragedy of that desire there? Insufficient She Tunxiang people. Indulge their souls will eventually lose true freedom! Must always guard against bad desire.
thirteenth comfort: to live a relaxed and happy;
not blind comparisons with others that he will be leisurely, not to set too high goals in life, your joy will be always there, and not deliberate pursuit of perfection that he would be away from the pain, not always demanding their own, their will to live freely, not often find fault, their will be easy.
will be too tired to live in pain, contentment!
fourteenth comfort: like his will to embrace life;
blindly arrogant self-esteem is the pride of life, ignorance, blindly give up on themselves, is the pessimism of life. Understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. The right to have a healthy self-esteem, particularly the face of setbacks will be shown strong. The temptation of the outside world is not lost self, not to deny their own temporary setbacks, always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often certainly appreciate his optimism.
fifteenth comfort: more than seeing the world with the good;
water is too clear there are no fish, no friends of people to the police. Everywhere can not tolerate the faults of others, then everyone becomes bad, will not be able to live in peace. In the eyes of the world's evil, the world everywhere is broken remnant of; to good look at the world, the world always lovable. His look at other people's strengths,puma shoes, the more likely look more lovely.
sixteenth comfort: do not blindly to please others;
is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary to please everyone, equal to offend everyone, deliberately to please others so that others will tired of, people close to nature, speculative mentality to change, time to please, as a down to work, to please someone else is always precarious, their only real effort.
blindly to please others lose themselves, to enrich themselves is very important.
seventeenth comfort: a done deal would have to go with the flow;
mature rice raw rice has been boiled, go remorse previous behavior, point benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to properly handle the back things, do not let things worse, the water is pouring out of making bad ones, and has been carved wooden boat is not restitution, and that these simple truth, you can calmly deal with legacy issues. Remorse without any benefits, not to take things worse.
eighteenth comfort: Although poor psychological material is not down and out;
poor in material not terrible, terrible poverty is psychological. Often associated with the down and out of poverty, human poverty and ambition is often related to mental poverty, the rich will become poor, psychological rich, the poor can become rich. Poor in material with despair, will quickly destroy a person's body, self-confidence, although for the time being poor in material, but the good days will soon come,
poor people go rather short, self-improvement.
nineteenth comfort: happiness, there is evil, evil in the blessed;
Mo temporary gains and losses are carried away, blindly intoxicated with a temporary victory, their own must be prepared not to play grown arrogant, complacent, intoxicated victory means stop stop, intoxicated victory means the loss of vigilance, relentless life on the road to never agitated, victory is only a small road sign. To win the final victory, only to, work, work.
Mo for the moment be confused, who laugh at the latest, who smiled the most fun.
twentieth comfort: It is important to live enriched;
been good each day is the greatest happiness, happiness comes from feeling good every day, always worried about the risks of tomorrow, with a total wipe it away yesterday shadow of life today how wishful? General comparisons are not comparisons of the total fantasy that can not be achieved, today's mood How quiet? Unrealistic things, are the source of the pain, the biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety,
suffering from non-fulfillment, life enrichment will not cranky.
twenty-one consolation: there are degrees of life should be fun;
appropriate recreational activities to regulate emotions, endless joy is easy to transfer benefits harm. Anti-matter is very few poor is change, \regrets. Have fun there is a degree of philosophical life, Queer not limited to entertainment, involving all aspects of life.
joy is associated with sadness, joy often accompanied by a degree will be happy.
twenty-two comfort: for a living law might be happier;
when their not liking the job very, everywhere are feeling the wall, whether the need for a change of scenery? When his very unhappy in marriage, constantly feeling is icehouse, have the courage to break through the knot? When asked to live their own accustomed,prada shoes, will stand tall to say \Confident, able and self-reliant, able to adjust their living conditions,
Do not be too useless to live comfortable Wizard of pleasure.
twenty-three consolation: may wish to temporarily put aside bothering;
life is too bitter short, why should always live their unhappy. Worries are normal, no worries is not normal. That if he suffers from mood, we might go to the movies, may wish to listen to some music, may wish to sing one song, may wish to make a phone call, may wish to enjoy sunshine ...
hell to trouble his mind, first happy 1 music.
twenty-four consolation: the foundation of joy in himself;
people always joy in life, their faith in the external affairs, attached to secular identity, all sorts of status value, property, and the treatment , reputation and other things as soon as the loss of these is a heavy blow, often lose, their well-being and happiness of the foundation also will destroy, if indeed it had its own life, then we want to be far from happy, and why is it others to evaluate their own happiness, a good grasp of their own.
twenty-five consolation: feel happiness is happiness;
many are deliberately pursue the so-called happiness; although some have been, its costs are huge and many philosophers have said that happiness is a kind of feeling. The feeling of happiness and satisfaction with the decrease, and the people's state of mind, closely related to psychology. Sages say: get the more difficult, deeper love, with happiness, often thought difficult. One can always feel happiness is the greatest tragedy of his own.
happiness is the kind of feeling, I do not know enough, never be happy.
live in their own way, adhere to their own insistence, believe that they believe in and cherish what they have, quietly waiting, happy to knock on the door of the moment ~ ~ ~ you will be happy!
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