Test do you easily offend people

You often feel very isolated? Is not that everyone always hostile to you, every eye is filled with contempt, ridicule and unpleasant? Quick test yourself, whether in the social circle really play the role of offended people.


If you hold a fine glass carefully on the floor of the subway, this is a gift from a friend just unfortunate thing happened,louis vuitton bags, a rush of people on the train you squeeze something in a broken arm --- , while this man is your neighbor before, then you will:

A. No matter who he is furious, the other party lambasted.

B. Forget it! Nothing with only air in their hearts.

C. ask for compensated.

D. consoled him and said: \wealth or material obtained. In your perception, a friend no less than what you love is more important. For this reason, your friends will be your last enemy.

In fact, your relationships in the psychological point of departure for a little deviation, so even if you are not a strong sense of hostility, interpersonal care about your needs will not be strong. Just because you like my idea of materialism, and the value of a friend to put things under. People who are your friends will not respect that and leave you. The idea that if you do not change,timberland boots, of course, your enemy will more and more.



B. Your state of mind in dealing with interpersonal relationships, the little compromises, and others may be you are afraid of the formation of the state of hostility, which the state of hostility will give you a great deal of psychological pressure and mental burden So you do not have the confidence to handle these relationships. You would rather take a step back in order to overall peace. You are a person who offends, you are nothing with the surface, but in my heart but you will be angry, but not shown.

like this to limit their practice for sake of relationships, on your own is hurt. For fear of offending others and suppress their own, you may gradually from the crowd, self-closed. By that time, the whole world's people will see you as foreign body, you will feel isolated, or quickly change it.



C. Do you think you and all your friends are in a reciprocal state, no one of the feared and who to whom the statement. Therefore, your attitude is very objective, very neutral. Not the default position, his own sense of ourselves and the enemy put out first, or first set their own sense of victimization. This approach you should be most acceptable approach. However,adidas shoes, if experience some self-awareness was a strong person, you will be considered too impersonal, and thus offend the other side.

Basically, this would not hurt your relationship, but which prevented further development. After all, people are to face, you have to compensate the other party, it means that your friendship is not very deep. Accounted for the other party in your mind is not the quantity is large enough to not care about, so even though they face would not mind, but his heart always some swelling on the skin.



D. You are a nice guy, you have great respect for each other's self-esteem and value of the other side feel that he is a highly regarded person. Therefore, he not only appreciates the outside, but also to the attitude of the other returns you,puma shoes, as your best friend.

you deal with the concept of interpersonal care, that human value is to resume everything. So you deal with things, would not consciously adopt an objective position to consider the stakes. Because you are so seriously friend, a friend went on, that your relationship is very satisfactory. Of course, your enemies will not appear. Very kind of you, absolutely no one is hostile to you, unless he brains a problem.